Financial elder abuse isn’t usually committed by strangers. In fact, 72% of all financial losses—more than $20 billion annually—come from someone the senior knows and trusts.
That’s what makes this form of abuse so devastating. The perpetrators aren’t anonymous scammers calling from overseas. They’re family members, caregivers, neighbors, and “new friends” who have earned access to your loved one’s home, finances, and trust.
According to the National Center on Elder Abuse, family members are the perpetrators in nearly 47% of all elder abuse cases. Caregivers account for another 13%. Only about 7% of victims don’t know their abuser.
If you’re caring for an aging parent, understanding who poses the greatest risk—and how to protect against them—can prevent a lifetime of savings from disappearing.
The Numbers Are Alarming
Financial elder abuse has reached crisis levels. Here’s what the latest research shows:
• $28.3 to $36.5 billion — Annual losses to elder financial exploitation in the United States
• 72% — Percentage of financial abuse losses caused by someone the senior knows (family, caregivers, friends)
• 1 in 24 — Cases of elder abuse reported to authorities (some studies suggest only 1 in 44 for financial abuse)
• 87.5% — Cases involving known perpetrators that go unreported (compared to only 33% unreported when a stranger commits the crime)
• 3x more likely — Financial abuse victims are three times more likely to die prematurely than seniors who aren’t abused
• 4x more likely — Victims are four times more likely to be admitted to a nursing home
The underreporting is particularly troubling. When a stranger commits fraud, victims are more likely to report it. But when the perpetrator is a son, daughter, or trusted caregiver, seniors often stay silent—out of shame, fear, or misplaced loyalty.
Who Commits Financial Elder Abuse?
Understanding who poses the greatest risk is the first step in prevention. The uncomfortable truth: it’s usually someone close.
Family Members
Adult children are the most common perpetrators of financial elder abuse. The pattern is often predictable:
- Financial pressure — Job loss, divorce, mounting debt, or unexpected expenses create desperation
- Addiction — Gambling, drugs, or alcohol problems fuel an urgent need for cash
- Entitlement — A belief that they deserve an “early inheritance” or compensation for caregiving
- Sibling rivalry — Fear that a brother or sister will receive more from the estate
- Long-term care concerns — Attempts to “protect” assets from being spent on care
One study found that seniors living with an adult child who is unemployed or has substance abuse issues face a significantly higher risk of financial exploitation.
Caregivers
Private caregivers—those hired directly without agency oversight—have unique access to a senior’s daily life. They may handle mail, accompany seniors to the bank, know the location of valuables, and develop emotional bonds that can be exploited.
Without background checks, supervision, or accountability systems, private caregivers operate with almost no oversight. When theft occurs, families often have no recourse.
“New Friends” and Predators
Isolation creates opportunity. Predators specifically target lonely seniors, befriending them through:
- Church or community groups
- Volunteer activities
- Neighborhood interactions
- Social clubs or senior centers
These individuals often spend months building trust before making financial requests. They may offer to help with errands, household tasks, or transportation—gradually becoming indispensable while gaining access to personal information and finances.
Professionals with Access
Healthcare workers, attorneys, financial advisors, and contractors can also exploit their positions. Healthcare fraud targeting seniors includes:
- Billing for services never provided
- Overcharging for medications or equipment
- Submitting false Medicare or Medicaid claims
- Pressuring seniors into unnecessary procedures
Common Forms of Financial Elder Abuse
Financial exploitation by trusted individuals takes many forms—some obvious, others subtle.
Power of Attorney Abuse
Power of attorney is designed to protect seniors who can no longer manage their own affairs. In the wrong hands, it becomes a tool for theft.
According to elder abuse prosecutors, power of attorney is the most common tool used to commit financial exploitation. One-third of all POA abuse cases involve family members.
Common abuses include:
- Transferring property to the agent’s name
- Withdrawing cash for personal use
- Selling assets without the senior’s knowledge
- Refusing to spend money on the senior’s care to “preserve” assets
- Making unauthorized gifts to themselves or others
Coercion and Undue Influence
Abusers may pressure seniors to:
- Change their will
- Add names to bank accounts or property deeds
- Sign over assets
- Take out loans
- Change beneficiary designations
This often happens when a senior has early cognitive decline—their conversational abilities remain intact while their judgment is compromised. The abuser may isolate the senior from other family members to prevent interference.
Theft and Misappropriation
Direct theft includes:
- Stealing cash, jewelry, or valuables
- Using credit or debit cards without permission
- Forging signatures on checks
- Diverting Social Security or pension payments
- Using the senior’s identity to open new accounts
Financial Control and Withholding
Some abusers don’t steal outright—they control. They may:
- Refuse to let the senior access their own money
- Withhold funds for basic necessities
- Refuse to pay bills despite adequate resources
- Threaten nursing home placement if the senior doesn’t comply
Warning Signs to Watch For
Trust your instincts. If something feels off, investigate. These red flags warrant immediate attention.
Financial Red Flags
▶ Unexplained withdrawals — Unusual or unauthorized bank account activity
▶ Document changes — Sudden modifications to wills, trusts, or power of attorney
▶ Missing items — Jewelry, heirlooms, or valuables that have disappeared
▶ Unpaid bills — Utilities, rent, or medical bills going unpaid despite adequate income
▶ New accounts — Credit cards or loans that the senior doesn’t remember opening
▶ Large transfers — Significant “gifts” or payments to new acquaintances or specific family members
▶ Property changes — New names added to deeds or titles
Behavioral Red Flags
▶ New “best friend” — Someone who appears suddenly and becomes deeply involved in decisions
▶ Isolation — Reduced contact with longtime friends and family members
▶ Secrecy — Reluctance to discuss finances when previously open
▶ Confusion — Unable to explain missing money or possessions
▶ Fear — Anxiety around specific individuals, especially when discussing finances
▶ Personality changes — Withdrawal, depression, or agitation
Living Condition Red Flags
▶ Utility shutoffs — Services disconnected despite available funds
▶ Home deterioration — Property falling into disrepair when money exists for maintenance
▶ Missing necessities — Inadequate food, medication, or appropriate clothing
▶ Legal notices — Eviction warnings or foreclosure threats
How to Protect Your Loved One
1. Stay Connected
Regular contact is your best defense. Isolation is the single greatest risk factor for financial abuse. Weekly visits, phone calls, or video chats help you spot changes early and keep predators at bay.
Pay attention to who else is in your loved one’s life. Be cautious of anyone who:
- Appears suddenly and becomes deeply involved
- Discourages contact with other family members
- Offers to handle finances or accompany the senior to the bank
- Expresses interest in inheritances or assets
2. Monitor Financial Activity
✓ Review statements — Check bank and credit card statements monthly for unusual activity
✓ Set up alerts — Request notifications for withdrawals over a certain amount
✓ Check credit reports — Review annually for unauthorized accounts at AnnualCreditReport.com
✓ Consider joint access — Add yourself as a joint account holder or set up view-only online access
✓ Document baseline — Know what accounts, properties, and valuables exist so changes become obvious
3. Safeguard Legal Documents
✓ Choose POA carefully — Select someone with proven financial responsibility and no conflicts of interest
✓ Consider co-agents — Require two signatures for major transactions
✓ Use a springing POA — Doesn’t take effect until incapacity is documented
✓ Require accounting — Build in requirements for regular financial reporting to the family or an attorney
✓ Review periodically — Update POA documents every few years to ensure the agent remains trustworthy
4. Create Financial Safeguards
✓ Automate bills — Set up automatic payments for recurring expenses
✓ Use direct deposit — Eliminate physical checks for Social Security and pensions
✓ Limit cash access — Keep only small amounts at home
✓ Reduce credit cards — Cancel unnecessary accounts
✓ Freeze credit — Prevent new accounts from being opened in the senior’s name
✓ Alert the bank — Ask about “trusted contact” designations that let them flag suspicious activity
5. Choose Caregivers Wisely
This is critical.
When you hire a private caregiver, you’re inviting someone into your loved one’s home with access to personal belongings, financial information, and daily routines. You assume all responsibility for screening, supervision, and oversight.
Private caregivers carry significant risks:
- No agency oversight or supervision
- No background checks unless you conduct them yourself
- No bonding or insurance protection
- No accountability if theft or fraud occurs
- No replacement if the caregiver doesn’t show up
Why Licensed Home Care Agencies Provide Better Protection
When you work with a licensed home care agency like All Heart Home Care, multiple safeguards protect your loved one:
✓ Thorough background checks — Every caregiver undergoes DOJ and FBI screening before entering your home
✓ Professional supervision — Regular quality visits and surprise audits ensure care standards are maintained
✓ Bonding and insurance — Professional liability coverage protects your family if issues arise
✓ Transparent accountability — Our All Heart Care Journal and timecard tracking create a clear record of all care activities
✓ Character-based hiring — We evaluate integrity and values, not just skills and experience
✓ Team oversight — Multiple layers of accountability from Client Relations Managers, Care Coordinators, and supervisory staff
The bottom line: Licensed agencies remove the burden of screening, supervising, and protecting against caregiver fraud—responsibilities that fall entirely on you when you hire privately.
What to Do If You Suspect Financial Abuse
Act immediately. Financial elder abuse often escalates quickly, and delays can mean more losses.
Step 1: Document Everything
- Take photos of suspicious documents or notices
- Print bank statements showing unusual activity
- Note dates, times, and details of concerning interactions
- Keep records of who has access to your loved one
- Save voicemails, texts, and emails
Step 2: Secure Finances
- Freeze credit reports at all three bureaus
- Change passwords and PINs on all accounts
- Cancel suspicious credit cards
- Revoke power of attorney if it’s being misused
- Move funds to a protected account if necessary
Step 3: Report the Abuse
San Diego County Adult Protective Services (APS)
📞 800-510-2020 (within San Diego County)
📞 800-339-4661 (outside the County)
APS investigates reports of elder abuse and can connect you with resources, legal assistance, and protective services. Reports can be made anonymously.
Additional reporting resources:
- Local law enforcement — For theft, fraud, or forgery
- National Elder Fraud Hotline — 833-372-8311
- FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center — ic3.gov
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau — 855-411-2372
You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone
Financial elder abuse is devastating—not just financially, but emotionally. The betrayal of trust, the loss of security, and the realization that someone took advantage of your loved one can be overwhelming.
When the perpetrator is a family member, the situation becomes even more complicated. Relationships fracture. Guilt and anger mix with grief. The senior may resist help out of loyalty or fear.
At All Heart Home Care, we’ve spent over 11 years building systems specifically designed to protect seniors from exploitation. Our caregivers are carefully screened, our oversight is rigorous, and our commitment to your family’s safety is absolute.
If you’re concerned about your loved one’s safety at home—whether from outside predators or questionable individuals in their life—we’re here to help create a care plan that protects both their independence and their security.
Get Help Today
Contact All Heart Home Care at (619) 736-4677 to discuss safe, supervised home care options for your loved one.
We’ll come to your home, assess your situation, and create a personalized care plan with the protections your family deserves. All consultations are free and confidential.
Because your loved one’s safety—and your peace of mind—matter.
Resources
• San Diego County Adult Protective Services: 800-510-2020
• National Elder Fraud Hotline: 833-372-8311
• Eldercare Locator: 800-677-1116 | eldercare.acl.gov
• Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: consumerfinance.gov
• National Center on Elder Abuse: ncea.acl.gov
• AARP Fraud Watch Network: aarp.org/fraudwatchnetwork
References
- National Council on Aging. (2024). Get the Facts on Elder Abuse. ncoa.org
- AARP. (2023). The Scope of Elder Financial Exploitation. aarp.org
- National Adult Protective Services Association. (2024). Financial Exploitation Resources. napsa-now.org
- SeniorLiving.org. (2025). Elder Abuse Statistics for 2026. seniorliving.org
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. (2024). Suspicious Activity Reports on Elder Financial Exploitation.
- U.S. Department of Justice. (2024). Elder Abuse Statistics and Resources. justice.gov



