Financial Elder Abuse: The Threat from People They Trust

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Financial elder abuse isn’t usually committed by strangers. In fact, 72% of all financial losses—more than $20 billion annually—come from someone the senior knows and trusts.

That’s what makes this form of abuse so devastating. The perpetrators aren’t anonymous scammers calling from overseas. They’re family members, caregivers, neighbors, and “new friends” who have earned access to your loved one’s home, finances, and trust.

According to the National Center on Elder Abuse, family members are the perpetrators in nearly 47% of all elder abuse cases. Caregivers account for another 13%. Only about 7% of victims don’t know their abuser.

If you’re caring for an aging parent, understanding who poses the greatest risk—and how to protect against them—can prevent a lifetime of savings from disappearing.


The Numbers Are Alarming

Financial elder abuse has reached crisis levels. Here’s what the latest research shows:

$28.3 to $36.5 billion — Annual losses to elder financial exploitation in the United States

72% — Percentage of financial abuse losses caused by someone the senior knows (family, caregivers, friends)

1 in 24 — Cases of elder abuse reported to authorities (some studies suggest only 1 in 44 for financial abuse)

87.5% — Cases involving known perpetrators that go unreported (compared to only 33% unreported when a stranger commits the crime)

3x more likely — Financial abuse victims are three times more likely to die prematurely than seniors who aren’t abused

4x more likely — Victims are four times more likely to be admitted to a nursing home

The underreporting is particularly troubling. When a stranger commits fraud, victims are more likely to report it. But when the perpetrator is a son, daughter, or trusted caregiver, seniors often stay silent—out of shame, fear, or misplaced loyalty.


Who Commits Financial Elder Abuse?

Understanding who poses the greatest risk is the first step in prevention. The uncomfortable truth: it’s usually someone close.

Family Members

Adult children are the most common perpetrators of financial elder abuse. The pattern is often predictable:

  • Financial pressure — Job loss, divorce, mounting debt, or unexpected expenses create desperation
  • Addiction — Gambling, drugs, or alcohol problems fuel an urgent need for cash
  • Entitlement — A belief that they deserve an “early inheritance” or compensation for caregiving
  • Sibling rivalry — Fear that a brother or sister will receive more from the estate
  • Long-term care concerns — Attempts to “protect” assets from being spent on care

One study found that seniors living with an adult child who is unemployed or has substance abuse issues face a significantly higher risk of financial exploitation.

Caregivers

Private caregivers—those hired directly without agency oversight—have unique access to a senior’s daily life. They may handle mail, accompany seniors to the bank, know the location of valuables, and develop emotional bonds that can be exploited.

Without background checks, supervision, or accountability systems, private caregivers operate with almost no oversight. When theft occurs, families often have no recourse.

“New Friends” and Predators

Isolation creates opportunity. Predators specifically target lonely seniors, befriending them through:

  • Church or community groups
  • Volunteer activities
  • Neighborhood interactions
  • Social clubs or senior centers

These individuals often spend months building trust before making financial requests. They may offer to help with errands, household tasks, or transportation—gradually becoming indispensable while gaining access to personal information and finances.

Professionals with Access

Healthcare workers, attorneys, financial advisors, and contractors can also exploit their positions. Healthcare fraud targeting seniors includes:

  • Billing for services never provided
  • Overcharging for medications or equipment
  • Submitting false Medicare or Medicaid claims
  • Pressuring seniors into unnecessary procedures

Common Forms of Financial Elder Abuse

Financial exploitation by trusted individuals takes many forms—some obvious, others subtle.

Power of Attorney Abuse

Power of attorney is designed to protect seniors who can no longer manage their own affairs. In the wrong hands, it becomes a tool for theft.

According to elder abuse prosecutors, power of attorney is the most common tool used to commit financial exploitation. One-third of all POA abuse cases involve family members.

Common abuses include:

  • Transferring property to the agent’s name
  • Withdrawing cash for personal use
  • Selling assets without the senior’s knowledge
  • Refusing to spend money on the senior’s care to “preserve” assets
  • Making unauthorized gifts to themselves or others

Coercion and Undue Influence

Abusers may pressure seniors to:

  • Change their will
  • Add names to bank accounts or property deeds
  • Sign over assets
  • Take out loans
  • Change beneficiary designations

This often happens when a senior has early cognitive decline—their conversational abilities remain intact while their judgment is compromised. The abuser may isolate the senior from other family members to prevent interference.

Theft and Misappropriation

Direct theft includes:

  • Stealing cash, jewelry, or valuables
  • Using credit or debit cards without permission
  • Forging signatures on checks
  • Diverting Social Security or pension payments
  • Using the senior’s identity to open new accounts

Financial Control and Withholding

Some abusers don’t steal outright—they control. They may:

  • Refuse to let the senior access their own money
  • Withhold funds for basic necessities
  • Refuse to pay bills despite adequate resources
  • Threaten nursing home placement if the senior doesn’t comply

Warning Signs to Watch For

Trust your instincts. If something feels off, investigate. These red flags warrant immediate attention.

Financial Red Flags

Unexplained withdrawals — Unusual or unauthorized bank account activity

Document changes — Sudden modifications to wills, trusts, or power of attorney

Missing items — Jewelry, heirlooms, or valuables that have disappeared

Unpaid bills — Utilities, rent, or medical bills going unpaid despite adequate income

New accounts — Credit cards or loans that the senior doesn’t remember opening

Large transfers — Significant “gifts” or payments to new acquaintances or specific family members

Property changes — New names added to deeds or titles

Behavioral Red Flags

New “best friend” — Someone who appears suddenly and becomes deeply involved in decisions

Isolation — Reduced contact with longtime friends and family members

Secrecy — Reluctance to discuss finances when previously open

Confusion — Unable to explain missing money or possessions

Fear — Anxiety around specific individuals, especially when discussing finances

Personality changes — Withdrawal, depression, or agitation

Living Condition Red Flags

Utility shutoffs — Services disconnected despite available funds

Home deterioration — Property falling into disrepair when money exists for maintenance

Missing necessities — Inadequate food, medication, or appropriate clothing

Legal notices — Eviction warnings or foreclosure threats


How to Protect Your Loved One

1. Stay Connected

Regular contact is your best defense. Isolation is the single greatest risk factor for financial abuse. Weekly visits, phone calls, or video chats help you spot changes early and keep predators at bay.

Pay attention to who else is in your loved one’s life. Be cautious of anyone who:

  • Appears suddenly and becomes deeply involved
  • Discourages contact with other family members
  • Offers to handle finances or accompany the senior to the bank
  • Expresses interest in inheritances or assets

2. Monitor Financial Activity

Review statements — Check bank and credit card statements monthly for unusual activity

Set up alerts — Request notifications for withdrawals over a certain amount

Check credit reports — Review annually for unauthorized accounts at AnnualCreditReport.com

Consider joint access — Add yourself as a joint account holder or set up view-only online access

Document baseline — Know what accounts, properties, and valuables exist so changes become obvious

3. Safeguard Legal Documents

Choose POA carefully — Select someone with proven financial responsibility and no conflicts of interest

Consider co-agents — Require two signatures for major transactions

Use a springing POA — Doesn’t take effect until incapacity is documented

Require accounting — Build in requirements for regular financial reporting to the family or an attorney

Review periodically — Update POA documents every few years to ensure the agent remains trustworthy

4. Create Financial Safeguards

Automate bills — Set up automatic payments for recurring expenses

Use direct deposit — Eliminate physical checks for Social Security and pensions

Limit cash access — Keep only small amounts at home

Reduce credit cards — Cancel unnecessary accounts

Freeze credit — Prevent new accounts from being opened in the senior’s name

Alert the bank — Ask about “trusted contact” designations that let them flag suspicious activity

5. Choose Caregivers Wisely

This is critical.

When you hire a private caregiver, you’re inviting someone into your loved one’s home with access to personal belongings, financial information, and daily routines. You assume all responsibility for screening, supervision, and oversight.

Private caregivers carry significant risks:

  • No agency oversight or supervision
  • No background checks unless you conduct them yourself
  • No bonding or insurance protection
  • No accountability if theft or fraud occurs
  • No replacement if the caregiver doesn’t show up

Why Licensed Home Care Agencies Provide Better Protection

When you work with a licensed home care agency like All Heart Home Care, multiple safeguards protect your loved one:

Thorough background checks — Every caregiver undergoes DOJ and FBI screening before entering your home

Professional supervision — Regular quality visits and surprise audits ensure care standards are maintained

Bonding and insurance — Professional liability coverage protects your family if issues arise

Transparent accountability — Our All Heart Care Journal and timecard tracking create a clear record of all care activities

Character-based hiring — We evaluate integrity and values, not just skills and experience

Team oversight — Multiple layers of accountability from Client Relations Managers, Care Coordinators, and supervisory staff

The bottom line: Licensed agencies remove the burden of screening, supervising, and protecting against caregiver fraud—responsibilities that fall entirely on you when you hire privately.


What to Do If You Suspect Financial Abuse

Act immediately. Financial elder abuse often escalates quickly, and delays can mean more losses.

Step 1: Document Everything

  • Take photos of suspicious documents or notices
  • Print bank statements showing unusual activity
  • Note dates, times, and details of concerning interactions
  • Keep records of who has access to your loved one
  • Save voicemails, texts, and emails

Step 2: Secure Finances

  • Freeze credit reports at all three bureaus
  • Change passwords and PINs on all accounts
  • Cancel suspicious credit cards
  • Revoke power of attorney if it’s being misused
  • Move funds to a protected account if necessary

Step 3: Report the Abuse

San Diego County Adult Protective Services (APS)

📞 800-510-2020 (within San Diego County)
📞 800-339-4661 (outside the County)

APS investigates reports of elder abuse and can connect you with resources, legal assistance, and protective services. Reports can be made anonymously.

Additional reporting resources:

  • Local law enforcement — For theft, fraud, or forgery
  • National Elder Fraud Hotline — 833-372-8311
  • FBI Internet Crime Complaint Centeric3.gov
  • Consumer Financial Protection Bureau — 855-411-2372

You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone

Financial elder abuse is devastating—not just financially, but emotionally. The betrayal of trust, the loss of security, and the realization that someone took advantage of your loved one can be overwhelming.

When the perpetrator is a family member, the situation becomes even more complicated. Relationships fracture. Guilt and anger mix with grief. The senior may resist help out of loyalty or fear.

At All Heart Home Care, we’ve spent over 11 years building systems specifically designed to protect seniors from exploitation. Our caregivers are carefully screened, our oversight is rigorous, and our commitment to your family’s safety is absolute.

If you’re concerned about your loved one’s safety at home—whether from outside predators or questionable individuals in their life—we’re here to help create a care plan that protects both their independence and their security.


Get Help Today

Contact All Heart Home Care at (619) 736-4677 to discuss safe, supervised home care options for your loved one.

We’ll come to your home, assess your situation, and create a personalized care plan with the protections your family deserves. All consultations are free and confidential.

Because your loved one’s safety—and your peace of mind—matter.


Resources

San Diego County Adult Protective Services: 800-510-2020

National Elder Fraud Hotline: 833-372-8311

Eldercare Locator: 800-677-1116 | eldercare.acl.gov

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: consumerfinance.gov

National Center on Elder Abuse: ncea.acl.gov

AARP Fraud Watch Network: aarp.org/fraudwatchnetwork


References

  1. National Council on Aging. (2024). Get the Facts on Elder Abuse. ncoa.org
  2. AARP. (2023). The Scope of Elder Financial Exploitation. aarp.org
  3. National Adult Protective Services Association. (2024). Financial Exploitation Resources. napsa-now.org
  4. SeniorLiving.org. (2025). Elder Abuse Statistics for 2026. seniorliving.org
  5. Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. (2024). Suspicious Activity Reports on Elder Financial Exploitation.
  6. U.S. Department of Justice. (2024). Elder Abuse Statistics and Resources. justice.gov

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Eric Barth, co-founder and CEO of All Heart Home Care San Diego

Eric Barth

CEO, All Heart Home Care

Eric Barth is the founder and CEO of All Heart Home Care™, an award-winning San Diego agency dedicated to providing compassionate, personalized in-home care for seniors. As the writer behind the All Heart Home Care blog, Eric shares insights and stories drawn from years of hands-on experience leading one of San Diego’s most trusted home care teams.

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Why it matters: If it’s secure enough for hospital patient records, it’s secure enough for your loved one’s care information.

Bank-Level Encryption Explained

Data in Storage (At Rest):

Data in Transmission (In Transit):

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Strict Access Controls

Who Can See What

Family Member Access:

Caregiver Access:

Staff Access:

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The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) establishes federal standards for protecting health information. Our compliance includes:

Privacy Rule Compliance:

Security Rule Compliance:

Breach Notification:

Business Associate Agreements:

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Redundancy:

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Mobile Device Security

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Digital vs. Paper Security Comparison

Security Concern
Paper Binders
WellSky_Color

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Anyone who enters the home

Only authorized users

Can it be lost?

✔︎ — permanently

— backed up continuously

Can it be damaged?

✔︎ — spills, fires, floods

— stored digitally

Is access tracked?

✔︎ Access logged & audited

Encryption protection?

✔︎ — bank-level encryption

Updates reach everyone?

— printing/distribution delays

✔︎ — instant notification

Survives disasters?

✔︎ — redundant backups

HIPAA compliant?

— difficult to prove

✔︎ — certified & audited

Can be accidentally discarded?

✔︎

— requires a password

Verdict: Digital is significantly more secure than paper in every measurable way.

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Secure password reset process via email or phone verification. We verify your identity before resetting access.

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This isn’t just secure—it’s among the most secure systems available in healthcare.

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Complete Care Plan Contents:

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Medications & Supplements

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Additional Important Information

This comprehensive information ensures every caregiver provides consistent, personalized care from day one.

Tracking health changes that matter.

The Change of Condition form documents significant shifts in your loved one’s health—new symptoms, changes in mobility, behavioral differences, or improvements in their condition. This isn’t about minor day-to-day variations; it’s about meaningful changes that physicians, families, and caregivers need to know about.

Why have a separate form for this?

Instead of searching through weeks of caregiver narratives to find when symptoms started or conditions changed, this form puts all significant health changes in one easy-to-reference place. When doctors ask “when did the difficulty walking begin?” or family members want to understand the progression of a condition, you’ll have clear, dated documentation right at your fingertips.

What gets documented:

Each entry includes:

Why this form matters:

Early detection changes outcomes. When caregivers notice something different—increased confusion, difficulty walking, loss of appetite, or even positive improvements like better mobility—documenting it immediately allows for faster responses.

Your family stays informed about meaningful health changes. Physicians receive accurate updates during appointments instead of relying on memory. Incoming caregivers know exactly what’s changed and what new precautions or assistance your loved one needs.

One form. Complete health timeline. Better care.

Whether tracking a temporary change after a fall or documenting the progression of a chronic condition, the Change of Condition form creates a clear health timeline. This helps everyone—doctors, family members, and our San Diego caregiver team—understand how your loved one’s needs are evolving and respond appropriately.

Proactive monitoring isn’t just good practice. It’s essential senior care.

How the Caregiver Narrative works.

Each caregiver documents their shift using a simple timeline format that captures the essential details of your loved one’s day. This structured approach ensures consistency across all caregivers and makes information easy to find.

What we document in every narrative:

Narrative Format:

Each entry follows this structure:

Why this format works:

This timeline approach provides clear, chronological documentation that’s easy for incoming caregivers to read and understand. Instead of wondering what happened during the previous shift, they can see exactly what your loved one ate, how they felt, what activities they enjoyed, and any health changes observed.

One record. Every shift. Complete continuity.

Whether care is short-term, long-term, or evolving, the Caregiver Narrative ensures nothing gets missed and nothing gets repeated. Your family can review the journal at any time during visits, or we can share photos of recent narratives with long-distance family members who want to stay connected and informed.

Complete transparency and peace of mind, right when you need it.

Your loved one's complete care roadmap, now available digitally.

The All Heart Customized Care Plan is completed during your initial assessment and tailored to your loved one’s specific needs, preferences, mobility level, and safety requirements.

Now fully digital and accessible on every caregiver’s phone.

We’ve gone paperless. Your care plan is accessible through our digital platform—caregivers reference it anytime, anywhere. Updates happen in real-time, so when something changes, every caregiver sees it immediately.

What's included:

Care goals, emergency contacts, medical conditions, mental health & cognitive status, medications & supplements, mobility & transfers, personal care routines, meal prep & dietary needs, daily routines, activities & engagement, and home environment details.

One plan. Every caregiver. Consistent care.

This digital approach ensures every San Diego caregiver has the same accurate, up-to-date information from day one—promoting safety, continuity, and person-centered care.

See how we organize care information. This form becomes your loved one’s digital care roadmap.